Does Size Really Matter?

Is penis size important to women?

A man's penis usually grows to its full size during puberty (from age 10 – 14) and this is the age that most “men” are being forced to undress in communal changing rooms at school and get to see how everyone around them seems to be sprouting hair and growing huge balls (testicles) and dicks.

It is usually the fastest maturing boys that become the leaders of the pack as they become more physically mature that the rest of the boys around them. Girls seem to go for these guys probably because they naturally look for protectors and maturity, and perhaps to try something new. And so from a very early age we yearn to be bigger and assume that the girls are going for the bigger guys because of their penis size, even though the probability that these guys have even been allowed to squeeze the girl's boobs, let alone sleep with them, is highly unlikely.

As we grow older, the opportunities to see other guy's dicks decreases tremendously (thank god!) and so we have nothing but porn stars' schlongs to compare ours with. That is like comparing your run around the park with the olympic athletes you see on the TV screen, rather than the other guys that are running around the park with you. Quite simply, you are kidding yourself.

Dicks are pretty much the same size!

So, when it comes down to it, 90% of men have dicks that are between 5 and 7 inches long. We perceive a bigger willy as being more satisfying to a woman, but most women who have had a few sexual partners confirm that the size of a penis doesn't matter.

Rest assured that the size of your penis is not related to sexual pleasure or performance. A woman will remember a kick-ass orgasm much longer than someone that had a big dick that didn't make her come. There are many ways to have sex that do not involve intercourse. Touching, kissing, licking and sucking on different parts of a woman will all add to the enjoyment of sex.

Intercourse can involve many different positions, strokes, thrust speeds, pressure that will change the way it feels for both partners There are certain positions that work better with a bigger dick and other positions that are better for a smaller penis.

Do women want a man with a big dick?

Just as sex with a woman with big boobs doesn't mean that sex will be better, sex with a man with a big dick isn't necessarily better. However, from a purely physical side of things, most men enjoy looking at a woman with a feminine shape. They automatically assume that sex will be better with an attractive person.

In the same way, when a woman first gets naked with a man, the first thing that she will look (or feel )for is his willy. If it is a regular size, she will probably be thinking “phew!” and if it is big, she will probably be smiling inside. When a woman chooses a man, she doesn't do it for the size of his dick. But when she sees that he has one, she is definitely happier.

I was a guy with a lower end of average sized dick. I worked out and got in great shape for sex and when I finally got naked with girls, they were always loving it, right up to the point when we got completely naked. I always felt like there was a slight look of dismay in their eyes.

That is why I started the stretching program. I wanted to balance my physique. I didn't necessarily want a porn-star dick, I just wanted to look good naked.

I am now glad to say that I quite happy to strut around naked and feel quite proud of my dick. I have grown to be mid-range average length when erect, and when I am soft, my penis hangs about 10cm (4 inches). It looks great and makes me feel really confident in the bedroom.

I don't think that my sexual ability has improved now that I have a bigger dick. In fact, I try hard to make an effort not to try less in bed now that I have more to offer.

If you have any questions about the process of growing your penis with stretching, then you can drop me an anonymous note via this site. I check mail once a week.

If you are interested in getting a hold of a stretching device, you can get one here.

And finally, you can see examples of my progress by clicking on the links on the side menu.

 

There are several devices on the market. I used the size genetics product. Here are links to some of the stretchers that are on the market:

Fast Size - Currently offering a monthly subscription plan

Size Genetics Penis Stretcher - The all-inclusive package

Jes Extender - Penis stretching device available with several custom options for different budgets

Ultimate Stretcher - no frills stretcher that will get the job done

Learn about the different penis stretchers here (information on the three products listed above)